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I am searching for women under 33 years of age, ideally over 23 years of age. Must speak English or Spanish at intermediate level or better. If not please don't write me.
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Please only write me if you want to get in touch with me through direct communication once outside of this website. It will not be through letter writing or emails. Letter writing can be an endless thing and lead to nowhere. We can continue to stay in touch by phone, by Whatsapp, by Skype or any other direct means. Should things not work out between you and I, I would pull myself out of your world permanently.
I am looking for a woman that is mature regardless of her age. I am looking for a woman that is a lady, which has class in every aspect of her life. I want the woman that I end up marrying or be in a relationship with good qualities for her to be a good mother.
I want a woman that has a lot going on in her life. I do not want to be her center. I want for us to support each other’s careers and passions in life.
I am not looking for women past 33 years. After 35 having children can be difficult. Ideally I would prefer a woman between 27 up to 33 years old. Maybe I would consider a woman that is younger, but not older than 33. If a woman is 33, we could still have one or two children.
I am not looking for a woman that her only contribution to the relationship is her beauty. I am not looking for a museum piece. I want my love partner to contribute as much to the relationship as me; otherwise you would wear me down. If I did, I would be adopting a woman, just like a child. I am 55 years of age. I don't want to adopt a woman for us to be in a relationship. I want both of us to create and financially support the relationship. Courtship is a two way road, if only one person does the doing, it leads to a dead end.
I am also not looking for a diva. I know a woman that flies only first class. She expects others to pay for airfare...of course. She also has an expensive meat and nut diet, which others are expected to pay. I don't want a diva, whether I pay for her expenses or not.
If you call yourself mature, it would mean the following to me:
---You don't depend on your parents to make important decisions.
---You have been in enough relationships to know what you want in a man and you can be what a man wants as well.
---You are independent and resourceful. You can cook for yourself, take care of your clothes, take care of your body.
---You pay your bills on time. You strive to maintain a good credit. I personally need good credit for insurances and so on. If we got married, your credit would blend in with mine. If you lower my credit score I may need to pay thousands of dollars more to keep my business going and to get new loans if necessary.
---If we got married, don't expect me to support you. In the USA if one of the individuals doesn’t work in the relationship, and they get a divorce...the other would have to keep supporting that individual. This is not going to happen with me. I would rather be dead than having to support a woman after supporting her during marriage. I see this as being very unfair.
---A man to be a good eligible bachelor needs to study when he is young, even work to pay for his education till he graduates. Then he is expected to get a good career. Then work hard to get his own car, place, like an apartment or house. At this point, any woman can move into his life. A woman in a similar way, is expected to do her part to be an eligible woman for a relationship or marriage. Just being beautiful is not enough. How else is she going to do her part to keep the relationship going and to rear children?
Key points I am looking for in a woman:
---Classy, educated, with old school values but not antiquated.
---Woman who does not need permission from her parents to do things or to be with me.
---Woman that is not fanatical to any religion, political system....
---Woman that is not a heavy drinker, smoker or into drugs or even taking psychiatric drugs.
---Woman that is career minded, even if she lives at home to help raise the kids.
---Woman that is not manipulative and controlling.
---Woman that does not need drama to be happy.
---Woman that is straightforward.
---Woman that wants to find her ideal man as opposed to hitching on to a man for other reasons, like for financial security or to leave her country or to simply get legal documents to live in the USA.
---I prefer to find a woman who does not have children. But if I find a women that is irresistible, her child(ren) would be an extension of herself and I would gladly have her with them in my life. I think this will be very unlikely and more complicated if you don't live in the USA already.
---I prefer women that do not have tattoos, puffed up lips, fake breast, plastic surgery, and piercings.
---It is not the custom of my family or culture to give a dowry. Don’t expect this from me if you want to marry me.
I also wanted to mention that I am looking for a woman that has the need to find herself a man and be in a relationship. If a woman does not have that need, and merely contemplates it, she wouldn't be ready for me. I have the need to be in a relationship. I do get impatient with ladies that are not at that level. They are too much work as they have other more important things in their lives. This could be their career, maybe they are very absorbed with their friends. Maybe some of these girls are cold as fish and they have no need for sex. If I see any of these red flags, I can't take a lady seriously. I may very well put her in the back burner and keep searching.
Things that I like:
Movies: The Shining, Immortal Beloved, Goodfellas, Star Wars, The Godfather, Scarface, The Breakfast Club, The Matrix, Minority Report, Risky Business, Unforgiven, Open Range, Brother, Clockwork Orange, V for Vendetta, Il Postino, Malena, Cinema Paradiso, Swan Song, American Beauty, American Graffiti and many more.
Books: The Little Prince, 1984, Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu, The Arte of War by Sun Tzu, The 48 Laws of Power, books by Roger Alan Currie, I like Shakespeare, Lust for Life, poetry books, short stories....
Music: Led Zeppelin, Nirvana, Stiff Little Fingers, Cash, Waylon Jennings, Rage Against the Machine, Beethoven, The Pixies, Sepultura, Accept, Pantera, Rock n Espanol, Mexican music, the Beatles, Rolling Stones, Muddy Waters, Jazz, Blues, Hip Hop, Country, Opera, Classical Musical, Rap.
POLITICS: I am not into the following forms of government: communism, socialism and fascism. I favor a republic over any other form of government.
Activities I enjoy doing:
---Going to music events.
---Hanging out with friends, enjoying beers, smoking on occasion cigarettes and cigars.
---Love to travel to Mexico and other places. I have been to Canada and Jamaica. I have visited NY, Florida and once I drove across the country in the USA. I have been to Ukraine. I recently visted friends in Dallas, Texas.
---Enjoy going to museums and art shows.
---Eating different kinds of foods in restaurants from different countries.
---I like to read articles regarding all kinds of subjects.
HEALTH
--- I enjoy researching things that are good for my health.
--- I try to eat organic food.
--- I am into essential oils, herbs and natural things.
--- I am not a vegetarian. You can be a vegetarian or vegan, just don't push it on me or try to make me feel guilty for eating meat or its byproducts.
I am a man set in my ways but not because I am stubborn. I simply know who I am and what I want. I am not looking for a woman to change or transform me the way she wants.
I am not looking for a woman to be her rival. I definitely don't want a woman that wants to rival me in every way. I have seen this happen in relationships. It does not work and it never has any harmony.
You may be a princess, but if we are in a relationship it'll work best if both of us contribute in an equal way somehow. I do not want to be the one that carries the whole burden. If contribute to the relationship you earn having it with your actions.
Some women that are very beautiful feel that they're entitled to everything without them doing nothing. I have seen women like this, not only do they receive things without giving anything in return, but that they actually demand it. Some women regardless, of how they look they are consumers in a relationship, it is about themselves, the me-me types.
I am not a nice person per se, nice people get abused. I am a loving individual but very tough. I don't take shit from nobody! I may not be the nicest person in the world, but I am fair, straightforward and loyal.
I am not looking for platonic love. If I don't want to marry you, even if I love you, it may just be that the laws don't favor men in marriage in the USA. I would want to protect myself as much as possible. If I ever have children with you I would most likely marry you if I want to be with you. If we ever get married I would do a prenuptial agreement. If you live with me in the USA or Mexico, you are going to work and make the same money as I do. I do not want to pay alimony if we ever separate. Women that do not work in the USA that are married, the husband has to pay alimony should they get a divorce. This is not going to happen to me as it would be unfair.
One important point, if we ever get married don’t expect me to adopt your family, directly or indirectly. I will not allow them to live in my home. I have seen this happen to many times. I am sorry that I even had to bring it up.
If things ever got serious between you and me, you could stay in my home in Mexico or possibly in the USA. I would probably enroll you in a school for you to learn English or something of the sorts.
I like when a women is sexy and she is unapologetic about it. But if showing more skin and less clothes is your thing you may be too much into yourself. There are women that create themselves as temples. They crave attention, they have a need to turn men on without caring about them. It is mostly mental abuse that they're interested in. It is all about themselves and it leaves everyone else out the door. To me it is just a reflection of them being needy and having low self-esteem.
I want to be with a women that is simple, peaceful, that does not thrive on drama. One important thing, perhaps the most important of them all---I want to know that If I share my life with a woman and that if things don't work out, to end it in an honorable way. Even worst enemies can be respectful and act honorably. I do not like vengeance, playing dirty and putting on a hate parade. A relationship can end in good terms, and if it ends bad, it does not need to be made a further nightmare.
I am looking for a women that is a good listener, one that is as interested in listening as I am. The quality that will keep a loving relationship running well and interesting is a high quality communication. Everything else is secondary.
If we are together, I want to accompany you in the things you appreciate. It does not matter whether I like those activities or not. I would make it a point to accompanying you and I would expect the same from you. It is not a compromise but a commitment to give your partner the freedom to do what pleases them. If you love someone you'll do that for them. The people who don't are narcissists, controlling and manipulative individuals where everything centers around them.
I am looking for a woman that knows her place in the traditional roles of a marriage or relationship. I understand women like to be independent but as a woman I think she should know her own territory. Women expect men to fix cars, broken appliances, paint the house and maintain a nice yard. Men expect a woman to know how to run a house, keep things in order, know how to cook, clean things, sew clothing and son on. Even if servants do everything, a woman should know how to manage the household.
Women have a certain expectation of men. They want them to be educated, that have career, that has the basic things to live in a decent way. All of this makes room for a woman in their life.
What woman I ended up deciding to pursue for a relationship in this website may be determined to a certain extent on how well she would transition to moving with me in the USA or Mexico. If she has a career she can easily do here, it would ease my load. If I truly love a woman, nothing else would matter. But if a woman is resourceful and can survive well anywhere she lives...all the better.
No matter what I do, I am an artist. Artists are creators, they command the highest levels of communication, they feel deeper, see further with their visions more so than other people. I consider I am in that category regardless of my income, my success or failures in life. The essence I have you may end up becoming addicted to for an entire lifetime and search for it after I have passed on. If I can find this kind of quality in a women, I would most likely give everything and anything for her.
One good approach to a relationship is seeing each other as equals, even though we are not in every way. If either one acts as if one had more money, beauty, talent, ability, intelligence, experience over the other it would show having advantage over the other. This would allow manipulation to enter in. Manipulation in a relationship is not going to make it work. Manipulation is a two way street. It does not work one way only. Some partners in a relationship think they are the superior partner because they make more money in their job. They can demean their partner, feel self-entitled and so on.
This is a site to possibly meet someone for a formal relationship. It does not imply contacting one person at a time and seeing how that goes. This wouldn't be practical. The idea is to select the one of the bunch, that is most ideal for oneself. The idea is also to date. Dating does not imply you are in a formal relationship. So long as you are not in a formal relationship you can be in touch with multiple prospects in the area of love. Once I get myself a girlfriend I would stop dating other women. I would make it known I have a girlfriend. By the way, I am heterosexual. I don't involve my love partner with other people, be it men or women. I like the traditional relationship.
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