My name is NOT Lain. My name is Iain! (Иаин - Да) (Лаин - Нет)

I have been many things in my life: a student, a Boy Scout, a musician, a soldier, a Roentgenographer, an web designer, a graphic designer, and a computer specialist. Also, I have traveled to many places in the USA, and many different parts of Europe and Eastern Europe – I have lived in Ireland, Germany, and Ukraine. Now, I have a very good job with the US Coast Guard – I am an Information Technology Specialist – and I am ready to settle down and start a family.

I'm a bit of a nerd – I enjoy science, and computers. I'm very active and concerned with human rights issues, and believe that fighting for the rights of others is very important. And, I’m not an "outdoors-man" – someone spends most of their time camping or hunting – but I do like to camp if I have the right person with me. I’m also very good at fixing things – I like to do my own maintenance on my apartment, and other things.

Truthfully, I try to be as relaxed and stress-free as possible. The only thing that truly upsets me are far-right politicians and the people who follow them – I am a very liberal person.

Also, I try to live my life as simply as possible – I'm more "blue jeans and t-shirt" and less "tuxedo." I don’t live extravagantly – I have a nice apartment, a Jeep, and an Indian motorcycle. And – I’m sure that most women will want to know this – I don’t drink very often. ...I think the last time I had a glass of wine was more than two years ago, I have some Irish Creme in my refrigerator but haven’t had any since last year, and (I think) I have had two glasses of beer this year… Don’t misunderstand me, I enjoy having a drink when the situation is appropriate, but I don’t “need” to drink alcohol. And, I would happily quit smoking if I had someone in my life who wanted to kiss me. 😃

Oh… and one more thing… I’m not a Christian – I’m a druid (Друиды). So… if that is a problem for any woman on this site… I might not be the right choice for her.

More than anything else, I want a wife who is my equal and best friend. I don’t need a housekeeper, cook, cleaner, maid… I am quite good at taking care of myself. But I do want someone to share my life with. Someone to hold my hand, go places with me, and do things with me. And, if she wants to have a child or two… that would be wonderful.

Ideally, she should be a little bit like me – I like being quite and I don’t like loud places. I want someone in my life who is intelligent enough to challenge me, caring enough to comfort me, and loving enough to put up with my idiosyncrasies.

Basically, I want a woman to share my life with, who won’t lie to me or cheat on me – I want to be the only man in her life. I want a woman who will hold my hand, tell me that she loves me, and kiss me as often as she wants.